Body language is the external reflection of our internal feelings, emotions and thoughts; if these things will be clear the attractive body language will build itself otherwise there will be just an imitation of what we aren’t.
- You are and everyone is the unique creation; neither a product of assembly line nor a sheep from the herd. Love your body language the way you feel most comfortable with it.
- People tend to remember your action that is your behavior – prove yourself first by your actions and later on by words.
- Use your both hands if you are conveying anything through hands.
- If you think unnecessarily you will shake your leg. Just think what is needed.
- If you feel comfortable with crossing legs or arms then do it! Otherwise never. Actually they are the sign of defensiveness, if weather is cold then its fine. Or its true application comes where you don’t want to take part in discussion or want to put yourself at safest position.While talking to a spiritual person who deals in sprits and energy, she discloses folding arms helps in protecting where the energy field is negative; otherwise there is no need of it.
- If you are tired there is no need to sit straight, relax your backbone otherwise sit as you like.
- While talking to a person, make your face, hands, legs and entire body directed to that person.
- Don’t move your eyes in different angels, make them focused without staring.
- Make your body posture friendly with the other person but always maintain a distance.
- Find out the pace and pitch of average tone from the group and adjust your tone according that, it will help you to harmonize at sound level.
- Keep your talks focused and result oriented never talk about the unnecessary subjects.
- You can touch your face and can rub your hair but don’t do if not needed.
- Don’t make unnecessary sound while walking, sitting, eating or drinking.
- If there is hours of sitting you can ask to have a walk or stretch the body a bit, it will help you to re-energize yourself.
- If there are problems in nose, ear, mouth, etc, then ask to go to washroom and clear them out.
- Whatever you say your body must also agree with it.
- Feel all the things you talk about, otherwise your body will show you don’t believe what you say.
- Never ever stare at head or much lower part below the neck, try to maintain parallel sight. Actually staring at head shows domination and staring at lower body parts shows servility.
- Listen carefully and reply with the same tone of voice of the question being asked to you. It will show you have equal strength and power and the other person will regard you.
- Be confident to both what you know and what you don’t know and remember body hardly tells lie.
- Try to use “we” and “you” rather using “I”.
- Remember people regard strengths not the weaknesses.
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